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Soul Shelter
Notes from one woman’s journey through emotional abuse, to my AAPI faith sisters.
You are beloved. You are not alone. Welcome to a safe, listening space that believes in and blesses your belovedness.
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A blog created to support AAPI women of faith who are navigating emotionally abusive relationships.
About
I am an AAPI artist, poet, coach, and facilitator working at the intersection of grief and joy. Emotional abuse is part of my history. I have survived, and continue to find healing and wholeness on the other side. It’s a work in progress.
This blog has been created because you are completely(!) worthy of love and respect. Emotional abuse can wipe that truth from your memory. No more.
It’s time for a new chapter of remembering and healing for us all.
Welcome. :)
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We are not therapists, a help line, or crisis intervention counselors. If you would like to talk with someone, here are some options to consider:
(United States) National Domestic Violence Hotline 24/7 voice: 800-799-7233 text: “START” to 88788
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: call 1(800)273-8255 or text START to 741-741.
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), anti-sexual violence organization: call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
National Child Abuse Hotline: call 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-2253)
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Though I’m writing to AAPI women of faith, others may also find they relate. If that’s you, welcome! The views expressed here are my own thoughts and opinions, based on my personal experiences.
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Matilda, the Mascot
It’s time for Soul Shelter to have a mascot: Matilda (whose Germanic name means “warrior”)! She’s all nicked up, but that doesn’t stop her from swimming toward a better future, determined not to give up hope.
Reflections on Holy Saturday
Can we let the tug-of-war between fear and hope - the struggle of not knowing - be as it is?
Where does grief find you?
As I walk around in the slowness of my grief, doing the heart work as it arises, I trust that the One who loves me will bring healing in its time. I trust that this will be true for you too.
Emotional Dust
The dust does not define you. You are God's beloved child, worthy of love and respect. Always.